2009 Family Letter that got lost among other documents

I misplaced this letter earlier but I still wanted to post it here since I love using this blog as a kind of journal. So, don't feel like you have to read it. :) It's all old stuff. :))

2009 - Life unveiled

Working for Western Nut Co.

At the Manheim Steamroller Concert

Limerick, Ireland

David's Graduation

Dahlee's Graduation

It's December, a time when many find themselves looking back at what the year had in store for them. With Christmas just around the corner and a new year waiting at the door, we realize that another year of our life has passed. With many events woven throughout the year, David and I don't need much time to remember the good and the unexpected that our little family experienced over the past 12 months.

After a fairly uneventful winter semester and two easy spring and summer terms spent mostly working and finishing up our degrees, both David and I graduated from Brigham Young University in August. David received a Bachelor of Science in Exercise Science and I earned a Bachelor of Arts in Linguistics.

The years spent at BYU finally came to an end and with them the chance for a new life. The beginning of this new life, we decided, was going to be spent in Ireland, as David learned with much excitement and anticipation that he was accepted into the Master of Ethnochoreology offered at the University of Limerick. Ethnochoreology is the study of folk dance as it developed in each country throughout the world. David's desire to choreograph and teach has developed during the last few years at BYU, while David took many folk dance classes, taught some of them himself and choreographed for SPAC, the team we toured with the year before. We left for Ireland during the last week of August. We stayed in Limerick for two months, spent making phone calls to the US, using up most of our savings and being frustrated with a system that didn't work. After experiencing many things that went wrong, we felt strongly that the best thing to do was to return to Utah and start over. It was during this hard time that we strengthened each other. We were content to return to our friends in the States but we also knew that a part of us was going to break off and be scattered somewhere between Europe and America.

Back in Utah, we started looking for work and eventually found some seasonal jobs. I work for Western Nut Co. at University Mall and David works at the Borders bookstore helping with pretty much everything that goes on in the store. They are fun jobs that we enjoy and are happy to have but we continue looking for full-time work to be able to take care of ourselves when these jobs will be over.

At this time we're looking forward to celebrating Christmas and even if there won't be many gifts under our tree, we are happy to have each other, with our love and our hopes together, ready to accomplish many great things. We are hopeful for the New Year, to make more plans, be better and learn more, and most of all to spend many more great times together as a family. We hope to hear from all of you about what your 2009 brought to you and hope that it turned out to be an excellent year for you and your families.

Love, Dahlee and David Thomas

2009 Highlights

- February: Celine Dion awesome concert in Salt Lake

- May: trip to California for aunt Sherry's funeral

- August: graduation and Ireland

- October: returned to Utah

- December: work with Western Nut Co. and Borders, visit to the Hogle Zoo, beautiful Manheim Steamroller concert in Salt Lake City

Back to Utah

So, we've been back for almost a month now. It almost feels like we've never been gone. Everything is the same... or almost... Almost because the weather is colder and wetter, our friends' kids are bigger, the trees have little to no leaves and we don't have our own place to live in. We've been staying at David's parents' condo in Midway and have been commuting to Provo but are really hoping to find stable work so that we could commit to paying rent every month.

Speaking of work, I'm doing some babysitting in Midway and I just started a new job selling nuts at the University Mall. I was nervous about the nuts job because I don't like dealing with money, but I enjoyed my first day and I think I'll do just fine. The babysitting is not that bad either. I care for a 1.5 year old little girl who is very nice and pretty easy and once a week I send the older sister off to school in the morning. The family I work for is nice and they are happy to have me work for them.

David has been looking for work too and he filled out tons of applications. So far he got a couple of interviews but we're hoping that he'll get more and hopefully a full time job. He will be working for the Borders bookstore for the holidays but we don't know if that will become a full time position or not... We're happy that he found some work though...

Being back it's been a good experience for us. We are happy to be back and to see our friends that we love. It's also nice to just go see familiar places. It somehow makes us feel safe and happy even though our life is still tough and we don't have much enjoyment going on right now. Being back in Utah feels good and we are happy to be here and to continue building our life together.

On our way

We left Ireland at 6:30 this morning and are currently on the last plane on our way to Salt Lake. The trip was good, with few incidents. We left from Limerick to Shannon last night after a full day of packing, cleaning and checking out of our apartment. We were very happy that for the first time ever the checkout process was quick and simple and the agent was impressed with our cleaning job. We were also very lucky to get our deposit back, which we used to pay part of the loan one of our friends gave us to pay our rent last month. We are glad that we paid most of it back. One less debt and worry is always welcome, right? So, we stayed at a much too nice hotel right next to the Shannon airport and showed up at the airport around 5:00am. The lady at the counter didn't have her glasses and also wasn't familiar with Permanent Resident procedures but we were able to sort things out fairly quickly. We were very pleased that we didn't have to pay to bring the computer with us so we should have it when we get off the plane. We saw it in JFK and it looked ok. We hope that it's in one piece and it'll still work :) The flight to Paris was short and nice. I love flying small planes! They are so smooth! I never thought that that would be the cas. We arrived a little late in Paris but we had over 3 hours between flights so it went ok. We had some peas soup, quiche and croissants and played some Playstation 3 games for a while until we boarded the plane that took us to New York. You know? It's a little sad going through cool cities such as Paris and NYC and not have time to go visit them. It's a dream of mine to see Paris, especially because I love the French language, and NYC is my most favorite city I've been to thus far. So, both of these cities are on my list to go visit sometime soon. Anyway, the flight to NYC was long and we were about one hour late but we made it safely. I enjoyed listening to the French language on the way - we flew on Air France. Oh, I remembered a cool thing that happened in Paris. I was taking a picture of our plane when a family approaches me asking me in French to take a picture of them. I took the picture but didn't do a good job including some background in it so I asked if they wanted me to take a better one from a different angle. The lady was impressed with my French and she complimented me on how well I spoke French. The truth is that I did a horrible job mumbling my words and thinking really hard of what to say but it made me really happy that she said that. Back to getting to NY... We arrived late to JFK as well and had to wait in a long line outside the terminal to only find out that we could have walked right at the front because we are American residents. The lady asked if we didn't hear her asking if there were any Americans in line and we thought that we might have heard something as we were stepping out of the plane but we were some of the last people in line so we didn't know what she was talking about. She never repeated her question and we were in line for about 20 mins until David asked her and she directed us to a desk. We breezed right through. It was the easiest and fastest entry in America I've ever had and it made me happy and made me forget all about the line real fast. In NY we are some Burger King because we knew that we weren't going to be fed on this plane and I was feeling nauseous and had a headache, and we then prepared to board the plane. As we walked to the gate we noticed that my name was posted on the screen above the gate so we asked about it. The lady said that I didn't have a seat and I needed to wait a few more minutes. Now, we only had 10 minutes until the plane left but were lucky to see my name dissapear off the list. We asked about it and she, very confused said: I'm taking care of the flight to Denver and you're going to SLC! Get on the plane! We didn't have time to ask what all that was about and didn't really care. We got on the plane and about an hour later flew out of JFK. I felt lucky that I got to see the City both at arrival and at departure, first time in daylight and second time at night when all the lights were on and the view was gorgeous. We're still on the plane waiting as patiently as we can to arrive in Salt Lake, get our car and drive to Midway. I'm glad that David is getting a little rest so that he can drive us to Midway. I feel tired and a little nervous but am excited to get back and see our friends and places we know and love. See you all soon!

Leaving Ireland

Some of you already know that David and I are returning to Utah. Yes, it is true... Things didn't work out and we both feel that going back will help us put our lives back together. I'm personally allright with the idea of going back because so far every experience here turned out to be a desaster and I just can't take it any longer. In my last entry I was being more optimistic that the checks were on the way and we were going to receive the money. The checks did arrive and we were happy. What else could go wrong??? Well, it turns out that the two of the three checks weren't filled out right so David couldn't cash them. He turned the good check in at the university and found out that the other two checks will take up to six weeks to be re-issued and cleared. This was the drop to fill our glass. We decided that we cannot wait any longer just hoping that things will work out and getting in more debt. So, today we went and talked to the landlord to get out of the apartment contract and David also turned in his withdraw letter. Just to make things even better, the school won't return all the money to us because David went to school here for a month. He didn't have an ID card until a couple weeks ago, didn't benefit from anything and didn't receive any help from anyone and yet he ows the school money! Of course there is nothing we can do about it, as always, so we'll have to suck it up and pay the government whatever the school won't refund us. And, as if we weren't in enough debt already... the company we rented the apartment through isn't sure if the landlord will get our deposit or at least part of the rent for this month back to us either so we're pretty much screwd and there is nothing we can do. As you can easily tell I'm really upset but this too shall pass. Just as a heads up to everyone... Please think twice if you're thinking to do any kind of business in Ireland. The bureaucracy is terrible, there is cigarrs smoke everywhere, the most important part of people's jobs is when they go out for a smoke and drink their coffee during the two hour lunch break and of course being careless and insensitive. There are some very nice people but too bad that the overall feeling is of carelessness... So, I guess this is all for now. I'll let you all know if anything else comes up but I really hope that if I will have any other news it will be good news.

Life goes on...

Well, I'm back. Not much has happened since I last wrote but I wanted to keep the blog up to date. So, I remember last time being frustrated with everything and everyone. I've gotten better at learning and accepting things as they are and as they come our way. Even though it's not easy it makes life a little more bearable. So, our situation right now...
David's money for school is still not here and we still have no idea when it'll come. David still likes his classes but he does think that what he wants to do is not what they teach him here. The degree will open doors for him but it doesn't seem to teach him much about teaching folk dance. It's more about researching and living with the people that he should study and understand. His desire is to teach and instill a love of folk dance into his students and I feel that he will be very successful at that. He has the personality and a great desire for it and he loves folk dance and dancing.

Our apartment is still nice even though we found quite a bit of broken pieces of furniture, including the main bed. One evening, as I was getting into bed the frame underneath broke and hurt my leg in the process. I still have a nice bruise on my right leg from that experience. We reported the problem but no one has taken any action yet even though it's been over two weeks. I also wish that the microwave was working because I'd love to have some popcorn. :) Otherwise the apartment is nice and comfortable. We are experiencing some difficulties with our neighbours underneath. They like to listen to their music very loudly. I have no doubt that they have a nice stereo that has a great base that resonates through the walls and keeps us awake until late at night. The longest it went was up until 1:00AM which might not seem that late if it wasn't for David having to get up early for school the next day. Well, I wrote a polite note to them which didn't have the desired effect so we might have to start looking for a different apartment. We really don't want this because at least we are comfortable and would like not to have to worry about an apartment right now. I don't know what we'll do yet...

Limerick has nice weather still. I'm still able to wear my flipflops and short sleaved t-shirts, which is nice. It's gotten a little bit colder but not a whole lot. The leaves are starting to turn yellow at places and the sky is more cloudy most of the time but the weather is still nice. Speaking of nature, one thing that really amazes me is our river... the Shannon river. It changes every hour and every day. In the morning it's full almost bursting, a few hours later is half full, to the point where the rocks on the bottom create waves and crazy waters, to only find it to its fullest in the evening. Sometimes it is so shallow that one could walk right through it, while other times is is so high that we worry that it might flow over. I'm not kidding that this river fluctuates more than any river I've ever seen. I know it's the tide, since we're so close to the ocean but it still seems pretty weird.

One thing that I'm very greatful about is the help of some people from church. It takes us about 50 minutes to walk to church on Sunday so it doesn't make it very easy and pleasurable, especially when it rains outside and it's cold and windy. But there are a few very nice and friendly people there. One family lended us money so that we could pay our rent, another man built us a small desk for our computer and another family helped us with some money for food. It's been a trying and humbling experience so far being here and we really hope not to have to receive help from others but it was very nice to have this help. My sister, Irina also helped us with some money, David's family from Japan and his boss, Sharon back in Utah also sent some money our way, for wich we are very greatful. We really hope that we'll be able to show our gratitude and thanks to all these people without whom we'd be homeless and starving.

What else has happened... One other good thing was that we finally were able to pick up our MAC computer. We left it in Utah with Carl and Karina and they mailed it to us a while back but when it got here the customs said that we had to pay almost 200 Euro to pick it up. We called them and they had us send it back to customs and when it returned there was no charge attached to it so we were able to get it. We are so happy to have it here safely and to be able to watch our favorite movies and TV shows that we missed all this time.

Well... I think that I covered pretty much most of it... I can't think of anything else. I like the food here, I like the green grass and trees and the Shannon river. I love being here with David. We might have to leave this country if our situation will not improve soon but we will remember these hard times that strenghtened us and drew us closer together.

To Limerick, Ireland...

Well, it's been a while since I last wrote something here... The truth is that I had little to no time to write and that our life's been pretty stressful lately (or for the past few months). In July David found out that he got accepted to the University of Limerick, Ireland (Master Program in Ethnochoreology). If you don't know what that means, don't worry. I didn't either. It's a program that focuses on folk dance. David would love to teach folk dance at a university and this program is apparently the best of its kind in the world and will help him achieve his dream. So, ever since we found out that he got accepted we've been trying to get money to go. We went to all the banks in Provo to ask for student loans only to find out that there were very little to no options for us. We applied for government loans and got approved. So we thought, at least... Next we tried to find a buyer for our Kia and were unsuccessful there too. Our dear friends, Eve and Shawn were so kind to take the car and try to sell it for us while we will be in Ireland. We are very thankful and really hope that Shawn will be succesful. So, after much negotiations and help from David's family and from Brother and Sister Smart we were able to scrap up enough money for the plane tickets and finally left. How thankful we are that they were so kind to lend us money for the tickets. The Smarts made it possible for us to fly to Ireland and that is something that we will not easily forget.
The trip to Ireland wasn't too bad, nor too long. We flew through New York City and it was so cool to see the beautiful Manhattan from the place in the gorgeous sunset. The Paris, Charles DeGaulle airport was a modern looking airport. We enjoyed some tasty chocolate croissants there, just because we were in France! :) Eventually we got to the very tiny plane that took us from Paris to Shannon, an small airport a few kilometers from Limerick. I watched out the window as we flew over Ireland. It is a green country but I thought that it looked pretty empty :0 at least from up above. Limerick is the third biggest town in Ireland and is well populated. Now, don't think it's that big. Salt Lake is bigger and more modern looking than Limerick, by a lot. Limerick is a classic European city. Many small buildings, old houses and churches, castles or castle walls at every corner, small roads, caffees everywhere, good food and people walking everywhere. Smoking and coffee breaks seem to be the favorite past times around here. People drink loads of coffee and smoke everywhere you go. I guess I kind of forgot that part of European life... For the first four days we stayed in a hotel and walked around like crazy trying to find an apartment and to figure out what else was there to be done for David's financial aid to be finalized and for the funds to be dispursed. Well, it turns out that even now, almost a month since we arrived the funds have not been given to us and we still live off the little Euro that we were able to put together back in Utah. Why all this trouble? We don't know. The school tells David to call some American institutions who tell him to tell the school to send papers. The school then tells him to send other papers and when we thinkg that everything is over there are more papers to sign and send, more very expensive phone calls to be made and more people to yell at. It' been quite the adventure. The bureaucracy is something else and no one seems to know what to do, what the process is and how to handle things. The ladies in the International office drink their coffees peacefully, smoke their cigars and yell at us from feet away, from their office that there is nothing else they can do. Very frustrating! I find it very hard at times not to stress out. And we have been very stressed out, both of us, almost every single day since we arrived. Back to finding an apartment, we did find a very nice one, 800 Euro/month plus utilities. Yeah! Expensive. One of the best deals though. How we'll pay for it we don't know yet but we're hanging in here. After arriving here, we quickly learned that the concept of time is different here and that everything costs almost double than what it costs in America. Also, we learned that this county is been hit very hard by the recession and that people loose their jobs every day and that there aren't many jobs available. I've been trying to find some work ever since we got here but didn't find anything yet... Hard life for the Irish even though as you walk down the streets it doesn't look like it. People buy lots from the closing out stores and eat and drink out a lot. I said earlier that the concept of time is different here... What I meant is that if one says we meet at 3 o'cloclk, be sure that it's going to be at least 15 minutes until they arrive. When one of David's manuals arrived, the UPS guy told us that our over-night packet had to be delivered in three days after it arrived because he already finished work for the day (it was around noon on Friday) and that packets are not to be delivered until next Monday. So much for paying double the price of the book to get it here on time... Yeah, so life is been crazy and still is. We try hard to stay happy but when there isn't much to do and no money to spend life can get pretty boring and bland. There is one movie theater here but we didn't go there yet because it costs like $15/person and they only have one or two showings of each show every week. We did eat out at KFC once and spent almost 20 Euro. I'm not even joking! I wish I was. But there are some cool things about being here. We have a nice apartment, David is getting his masters, hopefully and he's enjoying his classes. If everything works out he should have a master degree by next December. It was going to be by next April but the school decided that the students should have a few months after they finish their course work to do field research. That is really cool and we're hoping to go to Romania for Christmas to do some of that research but no one will pay for it, not even the financial aid from the States because David won't be taking classes during that time. Well, we hope to find jobs and set some money aside to go to Romania and to at least visit Ireland's beautiful countryside if no other European countries. We really want to see the castle that is here in Limerick, the famous cliffs of Moher and hopefully get to see some other places as well. I'll try to write here more and hopefully have better news next time. I really miss everyone and being in the States but I'll try to make the best of my time here in Europe. I think that we have a wonderful opportunity and am happy to be here with David and stand by him through everything. Until next time, farewell!

4th of July

So, life is been interesting since we graduated. I'm working for a company called Western Standard, doing Romanian<>English translation and David still works at BYU because they let him work on campus. It's pretty complicated but it worked out for him and we're not complaining. Not too long ago we found out that David got accepted into the Ethnochoreology Graduate Program at the University of Limerick, Ireland and we've been getting ready to go there at the end of August. Keep your fingers crossed that we'll be able to go. Why I say that? Well, it's been quite an adventure trying to get student loans. Not only is it hard to obtain loans if one goes to school in the States but it's even harder if one wants to study abroad. So, right now we're in the process of applying to Stafford Loans and other loans to help pay for out plane tickets and at least the first month's rent. I will be looking for a job once we get there but for now we have to rely on loans.

What else happened since the end of April... Well, we graduated and walked on the 24th of April, went to California at the end of May for Aunt Sheri's funeral, celebrated my birthday in California, worked a lot, got some dental work done and my wisdom teeth out (which cost almost $2,000 - yeah, that's where my salary went!) and had fun at the Highland Games at Thanksgiving Point and celebrating 4th of July in Provo watching the Stadium of Fire and in Midway having hamburgers and corn on the cob. So... a pretty busy summer so far. I only got to go to the pool twice this summer and I really want to go, but I went to the gym more and actually lost 10 lbs. since February. I'm pretty proud of this particular accomplishment. A couple other things we did were spending time with our friends Carl and Karina, going to baby Adam's blessing in Payson (Eni and Aric's baby boy), celebrating Romanian and Catholic Easter with Romanian friends and having a cool Romanian barbecue in the Rock Canyon Park in Provo. Oh, one other thing I'm happy about is my green bell pepper plants that I've been taking care since they were little babies and who are now all grown and are producing very tasty green peppers. :)

I'll give you a little more details on some of the stuff that we did. I told you that we went to aunt Sheri's funeral. Aunt Sheri is David's aunt and his mom's sister. She was very young and has three kids. She was engaged to be married and died in a car crash in California. Charity, David's sister was in the car when it happened but she was very lucky to only break her arm and get some scratches and bruises. Of course that is not lucky but it's better than dying... So, we went to the funeral and it was really sad but it was good to meet and see family that we only get to see once every couple of years.

The Barbecue with the Romanian and friends was really cool though. We had a wonderful time with Cristina and Brandon, Amy and Jeanene, Viorica, familia Geambasu, Maria-Taylor and bebe Luca, Eni-Aric-baby Adam and Aren, Eni's parents si Gaby creata. Fratele Geambasu cooked mici and sora Viorica brought branza si rosii, while Eni and het family brought some very tasty chicken drumsticks and cake. It was real fun especially watching the boys playing Bocci and enjoying each others company.

This is our summer so far. I'll try to post more in the future, once we get to Ireland. I'll also post a few pictures of the events I talked about above. Love and hugs to everyone!

Life...

Dahlee and David's Graduation Ceremony

Dahlee and David are finally graduating from Brigham Young University! Dahlee is graduating with a BA in Linguistics and David with a BS in Exercise Science.

If you'd like to come to the Graduation Ceremony, you'll find below the information you need.

The ceremonies will take place at the following times and locations, on the 24th
of April 2009:

- Dahlee's ceremony is at 8:00AM
- David's ceremony is at 2:00PM

- Dahlee's is at the Marriott Center, Provo, UT
- David's is in the Smith Fieldhouse, BYU Campus, Provo, UT

We hope that many will be there to celebrate with us.