On our way

We left Ireland at 6:30 this morning and are currently on the last plane on our way to Salt Lake. The trip was good, with few incidents. We left from Limerick to Shannon last night after a full day of packing, cleaning and checking out of our apartment. We were very happy that for the first time ever the checkout process was quick and simple and the agent was impressed with our cleaning job. We were also very lucky to get our deposit back, which we used to pay part of the loan one of our friends gave us to pay our rent last month. We are glad that we paid most of it back. One less debt and worry is always welcome, right? So, we stayed at a much too nice hotel right next to the Shannon airport and showed up at the airport around 5:00am. The lady at the counter didn't have her glasses and also wasn't familiar with Permanent Resident procedures but we were able to sort things out fairly quickly. We were very pleased that we didn't have to pay to bring the computer with us so we should have it when we get off the plane. We saw it in JFK and it looked ok. We hope that it's in one piece and it'll still work :) The flight to Paris was short and nice. I love flying small planes! They are so smooth! I never thought that that would be the cas. We arrived a little late in Paris but we had over 3 hours between flights so it went ok. We had some peas soup, quiche and croissants and played some Playstation 3 games for a while until we boarded the plane that took us to New York. You know? It's a little sad going through cool cities such as Paris and NYC and not have time to go visit them. It's a dream of mine to see Paris, especially because I love the French language, and NYC is my most favorite city I've been to thus far. So, both of these cities are on my list to go visit sometime soon. Anyway, the flight to NYC was long and we were about one hour late but we made it safely. I enjoyed listening to the French language on the way - we flew on Air France. Oh, I remembered a cool thing that happened in Paris. I was taking a picture of our plane when a family approaches me asking me in French to take a picture of them. I took the picture but didn't do a good job including some background in it so I asked if they wanted me to take a better one from a different angle. The lady was impressed with my French and she complimented me on how well I spoke French. The truth is that I did a horrible job mumbling my words and thinking really hard of what to say but it made me really happy that she said that. Back to getting to NY... We arrived late to JFK as well and had to wait in a long line outside the terminal to only find out that we could have walked right at the front because we are American residents. The lady asked if we didn't hear her asking if there were any Americans in line and we thought that we might have heard something as we were stepping out of the plane but we were some of the last people in line so we didn't know what she was talking about. She never repeated her question and we were in line for about 20 mins until David asked her and she directed us to a desk. We breezed right through. It was the easiest and fastest entry in America I've ever had and it made me happy and made me forget all about the line real fast. In NY we are some Burger King because we knew that we weren't going to be fed on this plane and I was feeling nauseous and had a headache, and we then prepared to board the plane. As we walked to the gate we noticed that my name was posted on the screen above the gate so we asked about it. The lady said that I didn't have a seat and I needed to wait a few more minutes. Now, we only had 10 minutes until the plane left but were lucky to see my name dissapear off the list. We asked about it and she, very confused said: I'm taking care of the flight to Denver and you're going to SLC! Get on the plane! We didn't have time to ask what all that was about and didn't really care. We got on the plane and about an hour later flew out of JFK. I felt lucky that I got to see the City both at arrival and at departure, first time in daylight and second time at night when all the lights were on and the view was gorgeous. We're still on the plane waiting as patiently as we can to arrive in Salt Lake, get our car and drive to Midway. I'm glad that David is getting a little rest so that he can drive us to Midway. I feel tired and a little nervous but am excited to get back and see our friends and places we know and love. See you all soon!

Leaving Ireland

Some of you already know that David and I are returning to Utah. Yes, it is true... Things didn't work out and we both feel that going back will help us put our lives back together. I'm personally allright with the idea of going back because so far every experience here turned out to be a desaster and I just can't take it any longer. In my last entry I was being more optimistic that the checks were on the way and we were going to receive the money. The checks did arrive and we were happy. What else could go wrong??? Well, it turns out that the two of the three checks weren't filled out right so David couldn't cash them. He turned the good check in at the university and found out that the other two checks will take up to six weeks to be re-issued and cleared. This was the drop to fill our glass. We decided that we cannot wait any longer just hoping that things will work out and getting in more debt. So, today we went and talked to the landlord to get out of the apartment contract and David also turned in his withdraw letter. Just to make things even better, the school won't return all the money to us because David went to school here for a month. He didn't have an ID card until a couple weeks ago, didn't benefit from anything and didn't receive any help from anyone and yet he ows the school money! Of course there is nothing we can do about it, as always, so we'll have to suck it up and pay the government whatever the school won't refund us. And, as if we weren't in enough debt already... the company we rented the apartment through isn't sure if the landlord will get our deposit or at least part of the rent for this month back to us either so we're pretty much screwd and there is nothing we can do. As you can easily tell I'm really upset but this too shall pass. Just as a heads up to everyone... Please think twice if you're thinking to do any kind of business in Ireland. The bureaucracy is terrible, there is cigarrs smoke everywhere, the most important part of people's jobs is when they go out for a smoke and drink their coffee during the two hour lunch break and of course being careless and insensitive. There are some very nice people but too bad that the overall feeling is of carelessness... So, I guess this is all for now. I'll let you all know if anything else comes up but I really hope that if I will have any other news it will be good news.

Life goes on...

Well, I'm back. Not much has happened since I last wrote but I wanted to keep the blog up to date. So, I remember last time being frustrated with everything and everyone. I've gotten better at learning and accepting things as they are and as they come our way. Even though it's not easy it makes life a little more bearable. So, our situation right now...
David's money for school is still not here and we still have no idea when it'll come. David still likes his classes but he does think that what he wants to do is not what they teach him here. The degree will open doors for him but it doesn't seem to teach him much about teaching folk dance. It's more about researching and living with the people that he should study and understand. His desire is to teach and instill a love of folk dance into his students and I feel that he will be very successful at that. He has the personality and a great desire for it and he loves folk dance and dancing.

Our apartment is still nice even though we found quite a bit of broken pieces of furniture, including the main bed. One evening, as I was getting into bed the frame underneath broke and hurt my leg in the process. I still have a nice bruise on my right leg from that experience. We reported the problem but no one has taken any action yet even though it's been over two weeks. I also wish that the microwave was working because I'd love to have some popcorn. :) Otherwise the apartment is nice and comfortable. We are experiencing some difficulties with our neighbours underneath. They like to listen to their music very loudly. I have no doubt that they have a nice stereo that has a great base that resonates through the walls and keeps us awake until late at night. The longest it went was up until 1:00AM which might not seem that late if it wasn't for David having to get up early for school the next day. Well, I wrote a polite note to them which didn't have the desired effect so we might have to start looking for a different apartment. We really don't want this because at least we are comfortable and would like not to have to worry about an apartment right now. I don't know what we'll do yet...

Limerick has nice weather still. I'm still able to wear my flipflops and short sleaved t-shirts, which is nice. It's gotten a little bit colder but not a whole lot. The leaves are starting to turn yellow at places and the sky is more cloudy most of the time but the weather is still nice. Speaking of nature, one thing that really amazes me is our river... the Shannon river. It changes every hour and every day. In the morning it's full almost bursting, a few hours later is half full, to the point where the rocks on the bottom create waves and crazy waters, to only find it to its fullest in the evening. Sometimes it is so shallow that one could walk right through it, while other times is is so high that we worry that it might flow over. I'm not kidding that this river fluctuates more than any river I've ever seen. I know it's the tide, since we're so close to the ocean but it still seems pretty weird.

One thing that I'm very greatful about is the help of some people from church. It takes us about 50 minutes to walk to church on Sunday so it doesn't make it very easy and pleasurable, especially when it rains outside and it's cold and windy. But there are a few very nice and friendly people there. One family lended us money so that we could pay our rent, another man built us a small desk for our computer and another family helped us with some money for food. It's been a trying and humbling experience so far being here and we really hope not to have to receive help from others but it was very nice to have this help. My sister, Irina also helped us with some money, David's family from Japan and his boss, Sharon back in Utah also sent some money our way, for wich we are very greatful. We really hope that we'll be able to show our gratitude and thanks to all these people without whom we'd be homeless and starving.

What else has happened... One other good thing was that we finally were able to pick up our MAC computer. We left it in Utah with Carl and Karina and they mailed it to us a while back but when it got here the customs said that we had to pay almost 200 Euro to pick it up. We called them and they had us send it back to customs and when it returned there was no charge attached to it so we were able to get it. We are so happy to have it here safely and to be able to watch our favorite movies and TV shows that we missed all this time.

Well... I think that I covered pretty much most of it... I can't think of anything else. I like the food here, I like the green grass and trees and the Shannon river. I love being here with David. We might have to leave this country if our situation will not improve soon but we will remember these hard times that strenghtened us and drew us closer together.